Prevent Home Remodeling Stress
January 31st, 2011 categories: Finances, Folsom Lake, Home Building, Home buying, Home Improvements, Home Selling, Real Estate
Keep the sanity in your sanctuary
If a man’s home is his castle then when your castle is being remodeled, it can feel like your kingdom is under siege. It’s frustrating when you come home with groceries and find your kitchen counters gone; the contractor calls and says he won’t show up for another week and this is the 3rd delay; the painter says the designer colors are no longer available but you could pay extra for custom matches. Pitching a fit or firing the entire crew is not the best solution.
Home remodeling taxes your emotions so here are some tips to help handle the psychological stress. When you remodel your home, you can feel you’ve lost your sanctuary, the one place you can totally relax, decompress, be yourself. I encourage you to take breaks by physically leaving the house during the remodel phase. Call some friends for a long coffee break, work out or take a yoga class, this is the time to explore those areas you’ve left undiscovered. Now would be the time for a mini-vacation or a weekend get away.
When you feel you’ve lost control of your domicile with workers coming and going, it’s hard to enjoy your daily routine. This is where you might question the wisdom of what you’ve done. When you realize the project will take three times as long and cost twice as much your best defense is taking positive, decisive actions. This is where some pre-planning will make all the difference.
Before you first sit down with your contractor be certain to do your due diligence and check out his credentials, call his references and above all confirm his license is valid and up to date. Tell your contractor you reserve the right to question or challenge any decision made. Add contingencies to your contract, such as: the contractor gets less pay if the job goes overtime, more if it takes less time. It’s standard in the industry to pay a portion after each phase is completed so be sure to understand his or her process and what the expectations are at each point.
You can also benefit by setting goals to accomplish one task at a time. Break every phase of the project into small, manageable “to do” lists. This will help you to psychologically gear up for the next stretch and give a sense of accomplishment which puts is little wind in the sails to get you through the next segment to be done. It also prevents you from jumping the gun and clearing out the dining room prematurely and then getting angry when it sits empty for two weeks until they get to that phase of construction.
It’s easy to fantasize about the picture-perfect home, the magazine ideal, but the reality is always more costly and sometimes impractical. A gourmet kitchen with top-of-the-line appliances looks fantastic but if your home is in an average neighborhood be sure you’re not over-improving because if you should need or want to move you’ll never recover those costs. Stay flexible and consider lots of options and have a “plan B” in place at every turn…it will keep you sane.
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